“When Would You Leave The U.S.?” Citizens Contemplate Their Breaking Point
As political tensions rise and social divisions deepen, many Americans are wrestling with a profound question: What would make them leave the United States? Recent online discussions reveal complex perspectives on this increasingly relevant topic, highlighting both practical challenges and emotional breaking points.
The Financial Reality Check
For most Americans, the biggest barrier to leaving isn’t desire – it’s means. Relocating internationally requires substantial financial resources, with many countries demanding proof of savings or steady income. As one commenter points out, “I don’t have the means to leave. If I did, I would have already been gone.“
Immigration Hurdles
The path to legal immigration is far more complex than many realize. Most countries have strict requirements like proof of substantial savings, in-demand job skills, age restrictions (some countries won’t accept immigrants over 45-55), clean criminal records, language proficiency and employment or marriage sponsorship. One commenter asked “Where is this magical place that I can move to with no money, no job, no friends, no family, and I likely don’t know the language?“
Healthy Issues
For those with disabilities or chronic illnesses, the challenge is even greater. “I would need to suddenly become able-bodied and have money. No country will take a severely disabled person, as we would be a drain on their system financially,” says one commenter.
Democratic Fall Out
Many cite the collapse of democratic processes as their red line. “If we didn’t hold elections anymore or got rid of the democratic process, I would leave,” shares one respondent, reflecting a common sentiment about preserving democratic values.
Increasing Crime Rates
Mass shootings and rising violence rates are already pushing some to consider departure. One former resident cited “616 mass shootings in 2024 alone” as their reason for potentially leaving.
Family Matters
The decision to leave becomes exponentially more complex for those with family ties. Older Americans especially express reluctance to leave behind children and grandchildren. As one 70-year-old puts it, “We have kids and grandkids, and while we have options, our kids do not, and we would never leave them.“
Looking Ahead
While many Americans discuss leaving, the reality is that international relocation remains a privilege few can access. Countries like Canada, New Zealand, and European nations maintain strict immigration policies, making the dream of escape more complicated than many realize.
Whether these discussions reflect genuine plans or expressions of frustration, they highlight growing concerns about America’s future direction and the complex choices citizens face in responding to social and political change.
Emese Maczko is a travel blogger behind Eco Lodges Anywhere. Having explored several destinations around Europe, the US, Indonesia, and Australia, and resided in Germany, the United Kingdom, and Luxembourg, Emese possesses a keen understanding of diverse cultures and an appreciation for the beauty of each destination she visits. She advocates for sustainable travel and ecotourism.